Believe, your baby may be strong and self-confidence. But without your help and support he can not do!
Step 1. Find a good kid in line

You should be proud that your baby calm, non egoist, well-wishers that he would be able not only to their liking, but also with the needs of others. He knows how to evaluate a good attitude to yourself. From the very early age, he listens to the comments of other people. From small modest obtained very good friends. Kindness - one of the main advantages of shy people, so be ready to shelter in their house the homeless kitten or puppy that does not cause tears of frustration with his child.

Rather than force through the correct character crumbs, find it positive features. Continuing baby say how wonderful it is and how you like it. This will help baby gain confidence in themselves and their forces.
Step 2. No criticism of his conduct

Never upbraided baby in his bashfulness, shyness (especially in the presence of his friends, peers or relatives). This regret the crumbs. It will feel worse than others. But that view of himself and his character is not the best way affect the formation of his personality and self-evaluation. Do not compare your child with other kids. Do not say, for example: “Dear, this courageous girl, is not afraid of anything, playing with kids, and you go for me as an attachment.” Your words will not cause a positive change in the nature of baby, so you simply his resentment. It will not be bold, but rather feels uncertain, lock in itself.
Step 3. Did not produce anything through force

The husband goes to work and baby does not want to leave, do pen “yet-still, kiss Daddy goodbye. Crumb is giving way his head, hiding on your hands? Not nervous, not fury and in no case cry to it. For crumb don’t need ritual of farewell, not because he was rude or does not like dad. He simply uncomfortable feels the situation farewell. And, if you will be nasty, the next time kid did not want to leave, but weep. The situation farewell he will be associated with negative emotions and stress. Once there who will approach the door, baby will shed tears. Suggest crumbs in the next wave for dad with you. If you succeed the first time, super! If not - do not upset, sooner or later the kid would do so. There is no need to do anything through force.
Step 4. Teach baby to self-sufficiency

When you come home visitors, baby quietly sitting with you on the hands or who do not communicate. All admired “What child rearing.” And you know that it is simply dreaming when all quickly leave and leave him alone with his mother. Or vice versa, baby all sorts of ways of trying to draw attention to themselves, running, shouting, grizzle. He simply afraid to come to the table with strangers or stranger people. And in that, and another child uncomfortable societal outsiders adults, and he is trying to bungle this state. Plant crumbs next to each other. Hug him, asked him a question, to which he can easily answer, like whether he drink. Loud tell something good about your kid, what words learned to speak, etc., etc. Try to bring to call someone from the guests. And if the aunt or uncle into the game with a baby, his heart exactly Ott, and he was happy to go on contact.
Step 5. Lighten the child play with peers

To develop normally, the child must communicate with peers. Communication with parents and other adults for kids is not enough. Therefore, necessarily go with crumbs on the playgrounds. If the crumb refuses to play with children in the sandbox go with him and takes an active part in the game! Try to get acquainted with the parents of other kids, who are constantly playing on your site. I invite them home. A child is easier to play with other kids on their territory, in a familiar environment.