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Motherhood: At the Beginning of the High Road

When a baby in the house, each family member wants to contribute to care about it. Unquiet father does not descend to nubbin precious hands, not ceasing to admire his treasure, grandmother every day recalls the importance nappies, a mother trying to apply to the baby store bought blouse and pants.

Do not hurry, time for adult clothing necessarily come, as long as swaddle your baby. In recent months pregnant child is very close contact with his mother - in close cocoon. And here he was born - and the cocoon apart. By its new status as the child is better used to small portions. Addictive takes in infants in different ways - from 10 days to a half months. Watching for his reactions, you can understand that at this time he needed. If you want to reassure her baby - napping it, take it cocoon, to push yourself or let the chest.

Child nutrition is not necessary, let him chest as often as he wants. Breastfeeding for the child - is not just about food, it is communicating with his mother and comfort of fear. Do not restrict his communication with you how it rules, even if feeding takes you at first, all your time. We can not overemphasize the importance of the emotional state of children in the early days of his life. At that time, shaped his attitude to the world. Suppose that you are not home, relatives certainly understand and help, more importantly now - is to feel the baby that in a world in which he came, his love and care.

Sleep, like feeding your baby is also probably wants to establish himself, his own. Certainly, it is very convenient when the regime is stable and coincides with yours, but unfortunately, this is not always the case. It should be gently, without aggression, but at the same time quite strongly induce baby to accepted norms. Every evening configure it to the night’s sleep, create a ritual that would accompany his departure for the night. For example, it can be such a sequence: swimming, pull curtains (or turn off the light), apply to the chest, and rocking baby. Create a ritual that would not burden you abundance of procedures and at the same time would be sufficient for the baby. Daily sleep baby can be built by completely on its needs, above all - to ensure that it will not for long turned into a nightclub. In this case, at night you have to live with baby his active life.

Another issue of concern to most parents - always there to approach the child, hearing his cry. Be sure to come! For infants notion capricious missing (provided they are healthy and well-developed). Therefore, if the child is crying, it must be treated immediately, throwing all cases. It is very important to neglect the continued integrity of his personality. Kid should feel that it’s protected. If you do not respond to his cry that a break in the psyche of a child makes a crack. And if you ever want to depend upon him, you can fail in the gulf, because the trust that has a crack, it can not be. Sometimes the child checks for you: just calling and waiting as you arrive. In this case, you must behave properly - immediately come to the rescue.

Try to create a home environment that would not overburden the psyche newborn. Excess new experiences may lead to a permanent over excitation and as a result, often wanton cry. The bright, colorful toys, new people, smells, music - all of this, of course, necessary, but very slowly and in the measure. In the first 3 months of nervous system baby, like all of his body, particularly tender and pliant, easily traumatize her, so it is important to give him feel that he was in a good location - not duck his head into the water as they like to do some parents Teaching crumbs dive from birth, not to engage with the baby-Yoga, etc.

The main thing you need is your baby - is mother’s hands and warm her breast.

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