Children are prone to adolescent frequent changes of mood. Another half an hour ago he was proud to talk about their achievements in school, and now - another fantasy about the acquisition of a mobile phone or evening stroll. This is a normal situation for the children of this age.

In doing so, the child often unconsciously aware that he was not right, but stubbornness and naughtiness are up over common sense. Parents in such situations often say: “age …” and press shoulders or, worse, irritate and throw out their anger on the child.

Frequent changes of mood and behavior of the child is able to withdraw from the mental equilibrium very patient parents. And while the parents were themselves in a situation sometimes becomes quite difficult to control their actions, which could lead to conflict.

Universal way to combat adolescent phenomena did not exist, it is necessary to survive and you and your child. Only after passing through all the problems of adolescence, the child begins to grow.

To avoid conflict situations when dealing with adolescents should adhere to a number of simple rules. This will help save your nerves and your child avoid many problems.

First: If the child is unable to control their actions, how do you. In other words - self-control, self-control, and once again self! A loyal aides in the process will be good distribution of working hours, rest time, time to communicate.

Second: give a child free time when he will be able to deal with their affairs. This reassure him, and give you time to rest.

The third rule: if you did not keep and shout at the child needed to rectify the situation - when the passion go to bed come to the child and apologize, explaining to him your behavior and reactions. Your credibility does not suffer from this, but rather on the contrary, will grow. Do not ignore this rule, because it can lead to further deterioration of the situation.

Your actions in relation to the actions teenagers should be appropriate and consistent. Remember this, because it no longer respect you if you’re constantly causeless shout and raise their unspeakable conditions.

In the event of an increase in the number of conflicts with the child, think - perhaps the reason is not in the child and you. Be self-critical assessment of the situation.

If you feel that you can not cope with the growing conflict situations during communication with your child’s play, think about seeking advice and assistance to professional psychologists.

And finally … Remember that kindness, caress and restraint in dealing with child contribute to greater discipline, in spite of paradox of the phrase.