In recent years, some cases of aggressive behavior disseminated minors with their peers, committing crimes to acts of cruelty and cynicism.

Some scientists believe that it is connected with the so-called hereditary gene cruelty or brutality.

For example: the father gets in prison for the crime. His mother is looking for earnings, not particularly care about what is her minor child, which still requires attention. Left alone with their problems of child sour on the world and, consequently, one of the parties commits the company to other young offense.

Is this case a factor of heredity?

The famous Frenchman Pierre Baust not in vain said: “Do not anger children - who wants to fight childhood, he would kill when to grow.”

Not once each of us had to watch as a resentful teenager hit my mother, father or older brother. Well, if parents ably explain that the child can not do so. But not vice versa, when parents do not draw attention to the child’s prank, or require eldest child, that he suffered abuse young. It is not good when one child fawn toy-dog, falls asleep, and the second - opens her legs, throw on the wall. It is from such moments, at first glance insignificant, and should start training.

At one time, man said that the child must raise so that he emerged subliminal “brake” for negative behavior. This principle has not lost its relevance. Impunity, as sometimes seems, for little things, creates a sense of permissiveness.

By studying the criminal cases involving juveniles, quite clearly a trend of real implementation of the negative scenes from contemporary films, which are full of violence. Where once was largely negative in foreign films, but today it present in our home series, where “Gangster” and “Rap” show their strength, superior to the law and others. Quite often a teenager, watching such scenes, but also in the company’s peers, may commit a serious crime. Therefore, we advise parents, if possible, limit viewing a teenager such films. Very bad that in recent years on television, fewer films, which are raising a child humanism, goodness, but in vain … In fact, as they say in the nation: “as you - and then get ….”

These observations apply not only to boys - in recent times and girls have their cruelty. Could language, alcohol, cigarettes, disassembled in teenage bands are becoming the norm. Like earrings from peer - hand stretches to face the victim. Do not like that classmates sympathetic to the other disco - its beat. In doing so, a child offender can be a very happy family.

These facts show that teenagers should be given more attention.

Now many schools psychologists and social pedagogues. These professionals - is one way to warn children from committing hasty, illegal actions. However, the primary role in the educational process did have to comply with the parents, without their active life position pains all psychologists will be in vain and ineffective.

Of course, not always have time to talk with her son or daughter, especially after the heavy labor of the day. But remember, they were happy when you’re whole family over the weekend left the city for a picnic, to a family fishing together or went to the theater, a restaurant.

Dear Parents, remember - if the child from early childhood to believe in parents, the youth with their problems, he ask it to you, but this is half the success is a partial solution to the problems of the adolescent, and you, too …