The house has someone else’s property. In temple pulses terrible words teachers’ Your child is stolen from classmates … “What do I do? Calm down. If only because such incident happens From thousands of other families. But it depends on the reaction of parents as events will develop further - for total control and confidence.

There is no need to lie hair on his head - what are we bad parents, and in no case should make the child repeat offenders. Best to see whether we are not provoking their behavior theft. Where we have money, whether they are everywhere, or left out of pocket, after all - the extent to which wealth in the life of your family? Whether a child engaged in conversations about the family budget, on future purchases, planning for vacation? For parents who passionate about heroes ” investigation ” with the use of force, robbery and fraud for the improvement of their own lives, as well as pets, talk about the prestigious things as signs of life on welfare - are pushing a child on the same line of conduct.

The responsibility for the child’s own actions should be the basis for parental attention. Encourage your child’s ability to recognize his mistakes, frankly confess of misconduct, continue to believe in his honesty.

Consider the most common causes of child theft:

1. A manifestation of ignorance, lack of awareness of what things you can freely use all depending on the needs are the property, such as teachers, classmates, and take them without permission is not allowed. In this case, the child should be held private talks with the arguments, examples from his own life, cartoons, movies, literature.

2. Deed was caused by pressing desire to have a child exactly the same thing. The child was “mesmerized” toy, a new thing - this happens quite often. How to resist the temptation? When that dreamed and dreamed about what - here, here, close, very close … It is only to reach out - and it is yours. In this version of the beginning of the conversation should take place in the plane of emotions child, the child’s wishes. Raise will be that the word “I” was the primary desire. By the way, the game rules are indispensable assistants in the case.

3. Or maybe the owner of the thing the whole day boasted of it, showing its superiority? And parents also have to think about what. To identify with the child what is good and what is “bad”, which should avoid, and how to protect their dignity.

4. It is possible that a child in terms of material wealth and well-being does not feel parental love? In this situation, children are trying to draw attention to themselves by other methods, one of which may be a violation of public rights, including theft. In this way the child is trying to draw attention to their parents. This is a serious family problem that contributes to the destruction of relations, blocking expression of feelings, remote from the child’s parents.

Loving parents a sense of ownership to cases and problems of their children. Their problems and failures can cause desire to help, support, inspire confidence among their own forces. But most importantly - to show your child that he was not alone in their decisions that the bad deed does not limit it to the parental warmth and love.