In this article I would like to highlight the issue of how the fate of the man took his name and a fatal role in it, it can play.

Even our forefathers believed that if the baptism of a child give the name of the holy righteous, it offers him a happy life, and if he gets the name of the martyr, the subsequent and his life will be continuous suffering. The same rule applies to named in honor of someone from relatives, regardless of whether they are alive or dead. Since ancient times, people guess that the name carries a charge of something inscrutable - that defines the line of life, and for this reason, try to avoid names that were “not good sign.” It is also believed that you can change even their own destiny took a different name. Such a move would cause, which is confirmed, and to changes in a person’s life.

The choice of name and named baby their rights are an important milestone in his life. In fact, named man named - is a kind of ritual recognition of his man and taking in the family (genus). Name of person - is the name of his soul! In my practice has been several cases in which I and my clients have been able to see how their own names to play with them “angry joke”, reflecting fatal to their health and destiny.

One such case occurred with a boy of fourteen years (call it Klay), sick cirrhosis of the liver. None of the relatives did not know what to do, why it happened and where this “attack”. With this request, they appealed to me. During the therapeutic work, it became apparent that the boy is connected with someone from the dead in his home. When I asked the older sister of Stephan present at this session, whether she knows anything about this man, and she told me a story about that their grandfather, Father of the father died long ago, when their father barely turned four years.

For children in this age is a huge shock! And often, in its soul, children of the love of parents in such cases to decide either to follow the dead or dying instead of them, as if their victim would be able to do something to change and return to a life of the deceased. There was an exception to the rules and the father of these children. It is after the birth of her child in secret from his wife gave his son the name of her deceased father - Stephan, although earlier with his wife, they agreed to call the boy to another. Thus, from the love of his early deceased father’s father Stephan, giving him the same name, as it sacrificed its own children. As a result, Stephan Jr. after his name was directly “linked” to the deceased grandfather and followed him out of love for dad ( “I die, but you Stay”). Miracle of resurrection grandfather certainly did not happen. But in such situations there is always a strong possibility that there may be “resurrected” scenarios of loss.

In a continuation of the story, the question of how we all have different driving us understand love, I would like to give a parable of G. Weber, which has called - “Love”.

One night a man dreamed that he heard the voice of God, who told him: “Arise, and take your only son, whom you love, and bring him a burnt offering on one of the mountains, which I will tell you.”

Morning a man stood up, looked at her son’s single, which he loved, looked at his wife, mother, looked at his God. He took the child, led him to the mountain, built an altar, and bound him hand out a knife and wanted to kill him. But then it was another voice, and instead of a son he slaughter sheep.

As the son looks to his father?
As a father to son?
As wife to the husband?
As a husband to his wife?
As they look to God?
And as he looks - if it exists - to them?

Another man dreamed one night that he heard the voice of God, who told him: “Arise, and take your only son, whom you love, and bring him a burnt offering on one of the mountains, which I will tell you.”

Morning a man stood up, looked at her son’s single, which he loved, looked at his wife, mother, looked at his God. He answered it in person: “I do not do this!”

As the son looks to his father?
As a father to son?
As wife to the husband?
As a husband to his wife?
As they look to God?
And as he looks - if it exists - to them?

And another man dreamed at night that he had heard the voice of God, and he stood up, looked at his son, took him on the mountain, built an altar, out a knife and killed him. When he came home, then killed himself.

From the above case, you can see that the fate of the individual is directly linked to the fate of his kind, and that at a depth of unconscious level, as mentioned, and leading psychologists and we “interwoven to his family as in the fateful community. ” It (the family) effect arising from our relationship with parents, grandmothers, grandfathers, brothers and sisters. We can say that we are living inside of a majority souls - the soul, which covers all family members. That is why sometimes we do not live a life of choice, and feel that strangers himself. And some have even desire to premature death. It should be noted that this kind of mainstreaming of this great soul is often fatal to humans, and we are at the mercy of their family lives.