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Husband of Psychologist

It’s amazing how much a typical female jobs do not have female names. And on that Psychology in certain areas - women’s path, the dispute does not occur. Glorious representatives masculine flash here and there from the rostrum of conferences, glossy covers of books, revive its presence and professional gathering solution vast sea of fellow women. But there is another category of men involved in psychology - husbands psychologists.

And it all started so innocently! You may have been in male company, for the bottle of beer, such as plain would say: “And my psychologist works …” and receive the response surprised looks. But soon he began to realize that his wife’s career - a serious test for the family, a combination of ‘husband by psychologist “akin to” Decembrist wife. ” In vain taught her mentors, teachers, that is not psychological studies at the close hold, and it - all in the accuracy and vice versa! How to resist when such imperfections number goes as not to open his eyes and does not push into the abyss of self-how to resist the temptation to take his personal growth under his personal control? (Later, she will understand the wisdom of their teachers, but it will be later …). That’s accounted for him to live with a woman who, even hysteria can not afford to - she give away their feelings. And what a husband to do something, the reaction to such behavior in his genetic memory is missing. The question outright: “What do you feel?” When well, and when ill, when the chief scold and when simply do not get enough sleep. And it sit near, in their eyes and look so calmly asks: “What do you feel?” Honey, yes you could even wrote a poster and hung on the wall, what sense is there!

A wife has a lot of terrible professional words. One of them - “training”. It looks like a disaster for its unpredictability and scope. It disappears somewhere in 2-3 days (mostly on weekends) and a return evening, did not know anybody. Maybe it will come, gummy with tears, and all night will talk about his childhood. Or come heatedly - happy kiss all hug everybody, recognized her husband’s love, ask for forgiveness from the mother-in-law … - so, the response may be very different, but always strong and surprises. At first husband doubted the sobriety of the state and delicately smell, but eventually realized: with the course returned sober, but abnormal.

Another horrible word - “clients”. It run like a wind them on the first call, she thinks about them, reads books and goes to enhance their skills - all for them! Had a difficult client fell, it will suffer and toil, and all Questions husband’s only privately sigh. All crises and depression customers accounted for a weekend, holiday feasts, and the worst - the same night. Rare husband did not have to watch the picture “a psychologist in the home interior”: his better half in the sauna bathrobe and slippers, with empty head feel on the phone the next customer. To endure such a life, one must be very patient, to treat all with the share of humor and most importantly - to love his wife. Love all - volatile, unpredictable, too smart, enthusiastic and scattered, worked-up and wrathful. Watch her personal growth and amuse themselves thinking: “If we have that, as with boredom did not die …” throw it in their hearts: “Too me, and even a psychologist!” And then ask for forgiveness - because it is above all a woman and him - a man depends how it would be “wife”, “mother”, “mistress”, “girlfriend” - woman and how “the psychologist, counselor, coach” - man!

“My husband psychologist” - test is not for the weak. Its a pass and become class men, or fall off, disappearing altogether, Endangered.

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