Psychologists are well aware how blindly sometimes parental love. Find themselves captives of their own vanity and with amazing perseverance turning a blind eye to the obvious, we often are unwilling to, make children unhappy, neurotic, with too many hang-ups or, rather, simply rude.

“He is such a brain!”

Toll soon be 8 years old. “Who would have thought that we have with him there so many problems?” - Sincerely perplexed mother Toll. In fact, to think everyone who had to Toll at least a couple of hours. “Do not forget to share” - melt my mother, when his sister off the small slices chokolate, Toll box quickly in the mouth for the rest of tiles. “Look what purpose” - when not paying attention to the guests, Tolik screech to a note: “Go read the book, go now to read the book, Mom, go read the book …” “Characteristics of rum - all in Papua”, - said my mother proud when Toll totally ignored her comments. Now my mother complains about the inability of the child in touch with classmates, reluctance to study, conflicts with teachers, frequent dramatics, a nervous breakdown, etc.

“There is no sense of it …”

There are other forms of blind love: when parents Reassessing the ability and capacity of a child becoming critical. Selfish desire of parents to prove themselves and all others that their child is unusually talented, can turn for the baby irreversible complex incompletely-value, to paralyze the will, lower aspirations. 6-year-old Katy’s led to the consultation to child psychology to complain: not willing to engage, prepare for school. The girl was cheerful and relaxedness while it was on its success in the classroom gymnastics. But wait for a request to draw a tree, it began trifle in the hands of a pencil, not decide to hold the line on paper. And constantly looking back at the parents. Mom visibly annoying, dad unhappy-but say: “I said, no wing will not. A waste of time.” In this area, the girl did not meet the expectations of parents, and instead of helping the daughter, they aggravate the situation harsh comments and breath of frustration. Feeling mental discomfort, Kat’s became avoid situations where the required use of mental capacity.

Every parent feels that knows your child better than anyone. But think - if you do not see what you want to see? Priglyadites how to react around your child, peers, saying that teachers and educators.