Psychologists are well aware how blindly sometimes parental love. Find themselves captives of their own vanity and with amazing perseverance turning a blind eye to the obvious, we often are unwilling to, make children unhappy, neurotic, with too many hang-ups or, rather, simply rude.

“He is such a brain!”

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“I know that kids can not be beat and corporal punishment is not the case. Yes, I because of his finger and did not touch. You know what I am doing? He is afraid of the dark, afraid because I have bolt in the basement, turn off the lights and leave it there. Look would you have what it then becomes a silk! “is the story of his father, which led to a survey of six boys with severe neurosis.

Do not you believe him. I see him completely, sham. On purpose - slowly unfasten the belt, it has yet to touch, as he had already beeps, calling my mother to be protected“, so said another father, afflicted poor achievers son.

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Born baby has only two ways to respond - a pleasure when he sit, it comfortably and warmly, and displeasure when he is hungry, he was scared, hurt or cold. Excitement is expressed to others in the form of smiles, joyful goo, calm or sleep quietly. His displeasure same baby was in the form of weeping, shouting, buck, at a later age - in the form of biting, soil, refraining from eating, and later appeared protests reaction to the destruction of what he considers valuable to the abuser. For others it may sometimes seem like motivational aggression, which often leads parents blush and feel a mixture of feelings of shame, confusion and fear in the face of aggressive behavior by their sons, which in turn pushes parents to establish the child’s ban on the expression of aggression. The desire of parents to prevent aggressive behavior in the child also dictated and social requirements. There are unpleasant to listen to complaints from educators, teacher or coach to destructive behavior son or daughter! The first reaction of parents tend to become a reproach or punish the child in order to teach him that can not be so. Unfortunately, it rarely leads to problems because the sight of missing the most important thing, namely that a child like this show, as he reported that way. Let us try to understand that mean these aggressive acts and then, to understand the reasons become much clearer what to do.

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Autism - mental illness, a disease that arises in young children where the child is unable to communicate with the outside world. For parents it is - a great tragedy. Sometimes the disease is not easy to identify, particularly at an early stage.

According to statistics, autism occurs in one out of 250 babys. One of them - year-Lauren Anderson. Her parents are very worried by the fact that the girl properly developed, and suggest that she suffers from autism. «When it is something unhappy, it beats the head of any solid object, and publishes a wild screams», - said the mother of Lauren.

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If you are not twenty-and long-girlfriend get married … If you are a frequent guest on other people’s celebrations, and sometimes to rest in family plots … Finally, if you have a very child and you do not isolate Son of communication with peers … then you just sooner or later appear problem whose name - other people’s children.

Do you remember how this started?

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The welfare of the family depends on how the relationship in conformity with the laws of nature. Humanity is facing a turning point in its history when, after thousands of years of development, spent on filling the desires of the body, which can be described as animal desires, everyone now must begin to build public relations at the level of “man”. And in the first place - family relations.

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Calendar of child development. Child referred to as a newborn in the period from birth and up to 4 weeks. In the early days of his entire body to work more energized and more stable and calm condition is only the beginning of the second week.

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Standards of Kids Development

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Some of the recommendations of child psychologist parents for the child development.

* Pay attention to whether a coherent, logical and grammatically correct a child presents her thoughts.

* To help a child to describe objects, events and phenomena as possible details. The boundaries of knowledge of a child while growing and it is enriched.

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Recently baby care, child psychology and kids games are increasingly faced with several strange phenomenon, some Art at the request of paint what they like, write letters and numbers instead of the expected figure from the scene. Why is this happening?

Obviously, on the one hand, the baby assumes that this demonstration of his ability and intelligence will cause a positive reaction adults, but on the other hand, for himself is often much easier if worked skills, paint sticks, circles, numbers and letters, as well as does not require a flight of fantasy and emotional dedication.

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The sensitivity - a rare phenomenon, especially among children, who rarely think who and what they say. The abuser and resentful of the day can not once changed roles, while the next morning, most children do not even remember the details of the conflicts have occurred.

However, if the child susceptible beyond measure - is hampered not only him but also to all those with whom he comes into contact. Any situation of communication painted in shades of negative inadequate reaction of the child to what is happening. Cope with this painful reaction is very difficult.

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