Psychologists are well aware how blindly sometimes parental love. Find themselves captives of their own vanity and with amazing perseverance turning a blind eye to the obvious, we often are unwilling to, make children unhappy, neurotic, with too many hang-ups or, rather, simply rude.

“He is such a brain!”

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Born baby has only two ways to respond - a pleasure when he sit, it comfortably and warmly, and displeasure when he is hungry, he was scared, hurt or cold. Excitement is expressed to others in the form of smiles, joyful goo, calm or sleep quietly. His displeasure same baby was in the form of weeping, shouting, buck, at a later age - in the form of biting, soil, refraining from eating, and later appeared protests reaction to the destruction of what he considers valuable to the abuser. For others it may sometimes seem like motivational aggression, which often leads parents blush and feel a mixture of feelings of shame, confusion and fear in the face of aggressive behavior by their sons, which in turn pushes parents to establish the child’s ban on the expression of aggression. The desire of parents to prevent aggressive behavior in the child also dictated and social requirements. There are unpleasant to listen to complaints from educators, teacher or coach to destructive behavior son or daughter! The first reaction of parents tend to become a reproach or punish the child in order to teach him that can not be so. Unfortunately, it rarely leads to problems because the sight of missing the most important thing, namely that a child like this show, as he reported that way. Let us try to understand that mean these aggressive acts and then, to understand the reasons become much clearer what to do.

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The source of these two words together in the head with one of the first born image of the Madonna and Child, known for paintings by old masters.
And becomes like a nice, warm, as if some fantasies, dreams of a distant childhood lived somewhere nearby. Indeed, when the son is at the very ages when a full can be called a child, and these two are nothing like the dream alive. The mother (Madonna) looked gently, with care and faith in the future that awaits them both, and that she would try to achieve.

But time is running inexorably forward, and our ideas are lagging behind, failing in step with the times, and this is especially telling in the case of the two - a mother and son. Put the history of their relations, while a son is not yet fully become adult - it can be very different, but like anything, it is still fully described their family status: mother, son. In the future it will be precisely on these two, when a third, father’s family, or for any reason or no it is purely nominal, not being present on either the husband or father or head of household.

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In this article I would like to highlight the issue of how the fate of the man took his name and a fatal role in it, it can play.

Even our forefathers believed that if the baptism of a child give the name of the holy righteous, it offers him a happy life, and if he gets the name of the martyr, the subsequent and his life will be continuous suffering. The same rule applies to named in honor of someone from relatives, regardless of whether they are alive or dead. Since ancient times, people guess that the name carries a charge of something inscrutable - that defines the line of life, and for this reason, try to avoid names that were “not good sign.” It is also believed that you can change even their own destiny took a different name. Such a move would cause, which is confirmed, and to changes in a person’s life.

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The welfare of the family depends on how the relationship in conformity with the laws of nature. Humanity is facing a turning point in its history when, after thousands of years of development, spent on filling the desires of the body, which can be described as animal desires, everyone now must begin to build public relations at the level of “man”. And in the first place - family relations.

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Modern (city) - it means a child of time, the product of civilization. Our civilization is more focused on a single person than on the family. He has the qualities necessary for it: it is mobile, independent, bold decisions and less whimsical pr … stronger, in a word. And the values of civilization, it seems to me more focused on free, which means a single person. Power, fame, career, etc. The person is easier to match a modern world, especially in mega-cities, and the world is too focused on him. A Family values poorly built and correlate with the values of modern civilization. Nowadays everything is changing so quickly that only free, mobile, and this is typically a single person, can keep pace, to keep abreast of “life”.

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Prehensile reflex. It manifests itself during stroking his palm or a light touch any subject. Reflex baby grab and holds everything that relates to his palm. He was able to keep a handle to the weight to kilograms, and if he is able to grasp both hands for anything, even, and hang.

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Calendar of child development. Child referred to as a newborn in the period from birth and up to 4 weeks. In the early days of his entire body to work more energized and more stable and calm condition is only the beginning of the second week.

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Standards of Kids Development

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The first lesson you learned in principle, which can be considered the foundation of our relationship with the child - unaccountable, its unconditional acceptance. We talked about how important it is constantly inform the child that it is important and we need that its existence is for us - joy.

Immediately the question arises-objection: easy to follow that advice in the quiet moments, or if all goes well. And if the child does «not something», not heard, annoying? How to be in these cases?

What if a child does «not something»?

We will answer this question in parts. In this lesson explain situations in which your child is something busy to do something, but do you think, «wrong», badly, with errors.

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