Mother does not help to correct anything in his past and renounce “invented” future, a future spouse did not convince the son to be more tolerant and patient. Each of them has its own hope for the future, to their mutual misfortune, resulting in one person.

In memory of many of us have probably a lot of examples from the life of friends, relatives, which described the situation had joyless end. And what can be - the standard advice about this, incidentally, is not useless, like: “go to a psychologist”, etc. But when feels absolutely right, and in sensual sphere otherwise there is no, never go for advice And you shall pursue its right to the last drop of blood.

First part here: Mother and Son

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“I know that kids can not be beat and corporal punishment is not the case. Yes, I because of his finger and did not touch. You know what I am doing? He is afraid of the dark, afraid because I have bolt in the basement, turn off the lights and leave it there. Look would you have what it then becomes a silk! “is the story of his father, which led to a survey of six boys with severe neurosis.

“Do not you believe him. I see him completely, sham. On purpose - slowly unfasten the belt, it has yet to touch, as he had already beeps, calling my mother to be protected“, so said another father, afflicted poor achievers son.

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Born baby has only two ways to respond - a pleasure when he sit, it comfortably and warmly, and displeasure when he is hungry, he was scared, hurt or cold. Excitement is expressed to others in the form of smiles, joyful goo, calm or sleep quietly. His displeasure same baby was in the form of weeping, shouting, buck, at a later age - in the form of biting, soil, refraining from eating, and later appeared protests reaction to the destruction of what he considers valuable to the abuser. For others it may sometimes seem like motivational aggression, which often leads parents blush and feel a mixture of feelings of shame, confusion and fear in the face of aggressive behavior by their sons, which in turn pushes parents to establish the child’s ban on the expression of aggression. The desire of parents to prevent aggressive behavior in the child also dictated and social requirements. There are unpleasant to listen to complaints from educators, teacher or coach to destructive behavior son or daughter! The first reaction of parents tend to become a reproach or punish the child in order to teach him that can not be so. Unfortunately, it rarely leads to problems because the sight of missing the most important thing, namely that a child like this show, as he reported that way. Let us try to understand that mean these aggressive acts and then, to understand the reasons become much clearer what to do.

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The source of these two words together in the head with one of the first born image of the Madonna and Child, known for paintings by old masters.
And becomes like a nice, warm, as if some fantasies, dreams of a distant childhood lived somewhere nearby. Indeed, when the son is at the very ages when a full can be called a child, and these two are nothing like the dream alive. The mother (Madonna) looked gently, with care and faith in the future that awaits them both, and that she would try to achieve.

But time is running inexorably forward, and our ideas are lagging behind, failing in step with the times, and this is especially telling in the case of the two - a mother and son. Put the history of their relations, while a son is not yet fully become adult - it can be very different, but like anything, it is still fully described their family status: mother, son. In the future it will be precisely on these two, when a third, father’s family, or for any reason or no it is purely nominal, not being present on either the husband or father or head of household.

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Autism - mental illness, a disease that arises in young children where the child is unable to communicate with the outside world. For parents it is - a great tragedy. Sometimes the disease is not easy to identify, particularly at an early stage.

According to statistics, autism occurs in one out of 250 babys. One of them - year-Lauren Anderson. Her parents are very worried by the fact that the girl properly developed, and suggest that she suffers from autism. «When it is something unhappy, it beats the head of any solid object, and publishes a wild screams», - said the mother of Lauren.

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It’s amazing how much a typical female jobs do not have female names. And on that Psychology in certain areas - women’s path, the dispute does not occur. Glorious representatives masculine flash here and there from the rostrum of conferences, glossy covers of books, revive its presence and professional gathering solution vast sea of fellow women. But there is another category of men involved in psychology - husbands psychologists.

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In this article I would like to highlight the issue of how the fate of the man took his name and a fatal role in it, it can play.

Even our forefathers believed that if the baptism of a child give the name of the holy righteous, it offers him a happy life, and if he gets the name of the martyr, the subsequent and his life will be continuous suffering. The same rule applies to named in honor of someone from relatives, regardless of whether they are alive or dead. Since ancient times, people guess that the name carries a charge of something inscrutable - that defines the line of life, and for this reason, try to avoid names that were “not good sign.” It is also believed that you can change even their own destiny took a different name. Such a move would cause, which is confirmed, and to changes in a person’s life.

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How much is written, but said the relationship between parents and children. A WHO and currently there. Many parents are unhappy with their children, criticized their behavior and want to live a life for them. In turn, the children quietly hate their parents for interfering in their lives, for the control and manipulation of the scandals and recriminations.

And this situation has lasted for more than one millennium and likely appeared simultaneously with the emergence of mankind.

Of course, there are few happy families where the parents and children enjoy the respect and understanding. And I want to believe that most of these families. But in this article I would like to touch it is destructive of families. Families, which hurt the normal and free development as human beings.

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Modern (city) - it means a child of time, the product of civilization. Our civilization is more focused on a single person than on the family. He has the qualities necessary for it: it is mobile, independent, bold decisions and less whimsical pr … stronger, in a word. And the values of civilization, it seems to me more focused on free, which means a single person. Power, fame, career, etc. The person is easier to match a modern world, especially in mega-cities, and the world is too focused on him. A Family values poorly built and correlate with the values of modern civilization. Nowadays everything is changing so quickly that only free, mobile, and this is typically a single person, can keep pace, to keep abreast of “life”.

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A normal child should not only time to gain weight and grow, but also to show their emotions and show some motor skills. Therefore, having found no age-appropriate motor development (motor function) and the psyche, is required to determine whether the delay depends on the development of birth defects or she is due to the fact that with few baby involved parents.

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